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Stunned, speechless, and sorta scared!!

April 27, 2008

Ok this girl down the street likes me alot.. i dunno what to do about this! I mean like woah!!!!!! she gave me this note like an hour ago, this is exactly what it says: (im not actually gonna mention her name though..)

Jake- I know you claim not to like me more then a friend, i got the message lound and clear. But i just wanted to let u know that when we hung out you came across as a really enjoyable guy 2 be with. I want to get to know u more. I see you are really funny & that we have 2 things in commen: 1> (cant say… kinda personal) 2> We both like sports. From josh (josh is my other neighbor) say you dont wanna go out wit me i care cause i’d like 2 go out with u. If we ever hang out and u get to kno me more and still dont wanna be my boyfriend, then i’d like it if we could just be friends! If u could write me back or discuss this over a game of catch that’d be great! P.S. You also are HOT but i want u to know thats not the only reason why i like u.. looks dont mean everything! Though ur still HOT!

Alright i dunno what to make of this!! I mean like woah!! She only lived here like a few weeks, and i’ve only seen her a couple of times!! like OMG! im just sorta stunned… Im happy that she likes me, but i dont like her… what should i do? anyone else have any situations like this??? AHHHH!!! -> Jeeze, i mean if it where some girl from shcool i could simply say no, be friends (or not) and move on. But its different with my neighbor.. i mean i’ll see her like everyday and even if we only stay friends, she’ll probably still like me for a while, which would make being with her very akward.. ugggghhh

EDIT: Wells its been a few days since i got the note, and the whole stunned thing is starting to wear off.. but this will be a freakin akward summer!

EDIT #2: She dumped her old bf today, so she could go out with me..

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    • Photo of Yummy_cream_pie Yummy_cream_pie
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      Posted 2 weeks ago by Yummy_cream_pie

      about ur edit #2, dont feel guilty or anything.. it was her choice, and she knew u dont even like her… her fault there

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      Posted 2 weeks ago by sam300467

      well then just tell her the truth…..that u just want 2 b friends…..take it from a girls point of view….

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      Lol theres an intesting situation to be put into!

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      Posted 2 weeks ago by Yummy_cream_pie

      haha lol i wish girls would go crazy over me like that.. lol witchy’s right, shes gutsy!! thats a pretty heart felt letter, u gotta give her that! definatly dont give her false hope.. thats gonna lead to BAD things.. BAD things!!!!!

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      Posted 2 weeks ago by WitchyWoman77

      Oh and I agree with my sis Crissy too.. don’t give her any false ideas that your friendship will develop into anything more if you know for sure that you don’t like her in that way. You don’t want to send mixed messages at all.

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      Posted 2 weeks ago by WitchyWoman77

      HAHA! That’s cute! She’s really gutsy! Wow, got to admire that! If you don’t like her in that way, but like her only as a friend, then just tell her you want to be just friends. It sounds like she wouldn’t mind just being friends with you.

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      Posted 2 weeks ago by crissylove

      I would just let her know up front that you are not interested in her that way. I mean i would not give her false hope that a friendship might lead to something more. Be very honest and truthful with her, cause if you even give her any hint that it could possibly lead to more than friendship, and it doesn’t , it would crush her, if you know what i mean. I hope this helps you out Jake, cause i think you are a great friend to have.